Monday 22 August 2011

Sorry


Saying sorry isn't always the easiest thing to do and that can be for a variety of different reasons, you may feel that you shouldn't apologize to a person or you may feel your apology wont be accept even if you do apologize.
The thing to consider when apologizing is that even if you don't mean it, if the person is special to you, you know at the end of the day you will apologize. Even if you promise yourself to not give in and stick to your opinion, decision or whatever you should be apologizing for.
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Of course people may not accept your apology but it's the thought that counts and they will then know you are sorry and have been brave enough to say it, whether it was sincere or not.
For me, apologizing is so i know i have done everything i can in order to make things right, it's a peace of mind thing.
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On the other hand there is being the one that should be apologized to. Now there are people who are extremely stubborn and though they may be 100% in the wrong they will not let it show they are sorry in any way. 
I have known a few people like this and still do today, the way i see it, if you care for this person and you want to sort things out you will accept that it is a part of who they are. 
Then again other people just have too big of an ego to apologize under any circumstance and on occasion it is better to just walk away.
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Accepting an apology can also be very tricky, you may be hurt or mad about what this person has done/said to you. And they could try their very hardest to make things up to you and though you may not think they deserve your forgiveness, we all have to live in this world together and nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes.
In my eyes we should all forgive and forget, because at the end of the day if you were apologizing to someone you'd want them to forgive and move past it.
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